Show Notes Episode 42 – Allison Pelot: From Wounded Girl To Gifted Therapist and Honest Lover
A womanโs passage through life from growing up to adulthood, parenthood and middle age doesnโt leave her much time for taking a gentle breath and just being an authentic human being.
And, what does it mean to learn how be a woman?
Allison Pelot describes her journey to become a complete and whole woman in this very feminine Living 4D episode,
Learn more about Allison and her expertise in whole health and nutrition, along with her Integrate Yourself podcast at her Pure Energy Wellness website.
Show Notes
- The day Allison met Paul she experienced such a strong jolt to her system that it โwoke her up from a deep sleep.โ (4:53)
- For parents, do you celebrate the rite of passage for your child the first time she/he has sex? (12:59)Paulโs emotional response to absent parents as a child: He failed the third grade and couldnโt read. (15:55)
- Do you ask a childโs permission to touch them if you donโt know them? (25:14)
- Allison suffered a major early midlife crisis after completing college. (35:30)
- โYou’re not a successful parent if you can’t help your kids with life.โ (48:21)
- Too many women are overriding the urge to slow down and take the time to do the work they need just to be feminine. (1:01:58)
- Allison is a โrecovering perfectionist.โ (1:08:58)
- How do you work on new things in the bedroom? Try them out on yourself first. (1:13:07)
- Mana loves to clean and dance at the same time. (1:31:59)
- Navigating multiple-partner relationships โ a work in progress โ from Allisonโs perspective. (1:46:46)
- Portland is the polyamorous capital of the world. (1:54:33)
- โA turning point for me was when I realized that I wasn’t going to be able to control him. And the more I tried to control the whole thing, the less control I
- hadโฆโ (2:11:41)
- Women arenโt meant to โdo it allโ by themselves. They need nourishment from their sisterhood. (2:38:31)
- โAnother part of why women have health issues is because we’re never really taught how to be women.โ (2:40:32)
Resources
- Diet and Nutrition: A Holistic Approach by Rudolph Ballentine
- The Body Keeps The Score: Brain, Mind and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Dr. Bessel van der Kolk
- Howard Gardnerโs theory of multiple intelligences
- Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray and What It Means For Modern Relationships by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan
- The Unruly Mystic: Saint Hildegard of Bingen documentary
- Voices of the First Day by Robert Lawlor
- Hooked: How to Build Habit-Forming Products by Nir Eyal
- The Mists of Avalon by Marion Zimmer Bradley
- The work of Hanna Bier and her 13 Moon Goddess Archetypal Healing
- Gaia Codex by Sarah Drew